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		<title>Engaging Difference &#8211; does it &#8216;water us down&#8217;? (part 2)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 16:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Burzynski</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A cultural value that is widely and strongly adhered to in the United States is egalitarianism. While this is admittedly a vague concept and there are likely to be as many definitions of it as there are people, we can loosely define it as a belief in certain inalienable rights that every human being is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- 		@page { margin: 0.79in } 		P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } -->A cultural value that is widely and strongly adhered to in the United States is egalitarianism. While this is admittedly a vague concept and there are likely to be as many definitions of it as there are people, we can loosely define it as a belief in certain inalienable rights that every human being is entitled to regardless of ethnicity, gender, creed, social class etc. We envision a society constructed on this value where all individuals can navigate the social landscape on equal footing with the opportunity to realize their personal aspirations through their merit and force of will. Another useful term for our discussion of this value is <em>self-determination – </em>we are equal when we possess equal power over decision-making<em>. </em>Although it is highly questionable whether we are living in such a society, many of us take it for granted that we have indeed fully realized our ideal of universal self-determination and thus have a duty to pass this value on to parts of the world where &#8216;unjust&#8217; and &#8216;unequal&#8217; societies still exist, or to enforce this value as a norm on new entrants to our society. Such support for <em>imposed</em> egalitarianism, while perhaps less pronounced today, has historically manifested itself in foreign policy decisions and stances on immigration.</p>
<p>If we correlate egalitarianism with self-determination, we can see the absurdity inherent in an <em>imposed </em>egalitarianism. How can we pay lip service to self-determination while imposing our values on others? It is my belief that like egalitarianism, any value pushed to its extreme empties itself of its spiritual and ethical potency and becomes a parasitic shell of itself, an ethnocentric propaganda tool, or just a meaningless cliché. It becomes its own enemy, the very evil it sees in the binary opposite from which it seeks to differentiate itself &#8211; freedom becomes tyranny and justice becomes arbitrary domination. To understand this process we need to look not only at the diverse cultural values held in the world but also at the asymmetrical power relations that exist where they intersect and clash.</p>
<p>Why is it that what is conventionally viewed as a strong commitment to values or principles generally entails a covert or even overt violation of them in actual practice? Such a &#8216;cultural crusader&#8217; attitude polarizes issues and creates confusion over what values actually mean. It also reveals a fundamental disparity in power relations in that the culturally marginalized do not have the privilege to impose their values on others. Rather than a strength, to me this attitude seems more like a defense mechanism to mask insecurity and a weak commitment to principles. I wonder whether it is possible to reconceptualize values and what constitutes authentic commitment to them. Under this new conceptualization I would prioritize <em>security </em>in one&#8217;s identity and principles as a demonstration of real commitment rather than measuring this by how aggressively we assert ourselves in the face of difference.</p>
<p>How we choose to present our beliefs and react to the presentation of others determines the success of an intercultural encounter more than the beliefs themselves. While debate tends to entrench each side in their preexisting beliefs and thus has a polarizing and narrowing effect, dialogue and engagement have the potential to enhance these beliefs, refine them of their inconsistencies, and bring out their latent truths. Which one of these approaches seems more likely to cause a &#8216;watering down&#8217;?</p>
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		<title>Am I a Peace-leaver?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 16:37:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Hartley</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Inside one of my Christmas cards it read, &#8220;peace I leave with you, my peace I give to you&#8221; and I thought; am I a peace-giver, a peace-leaver?  When I leave a home, a store, a restaurant, a meeting, have I left peace, or have I instead decided to leave my selfishness, my annoyance, my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Inside one of my Christmas cards it read, &#8220;peace I leave with you, my peace I give to you&#8221; and I thought; am I a peace-giver, a peace-leaver?  When I leave a home, a store, a restaurant, a meeting, have I left peace, or have I instead decided to leave my selfishness, my annoyance, my insistence on getting my own way?  When I speak with someone who has hurt me, do I sow seeds of reconciliation, or am I more interested in having the last word, proving my point, being right?  I want to be a peace-giver, a peace-bringer, a peace-sower, a peace-leaver &#8211; and one who also speaks truth into confusing situations.  I&#8221;ll let you know how that goes.</p>
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		<title>Hello &amp; Reflection on 2009 Summer Institute</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 15:58:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Fatemeh Darabi</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week our blog entry comes from Fatemeh Darabi, who was a participant at our Summer Institute last year.  Fatemeh is originally from Tehran, in Iran.  She recently completed an MA in Peace Studies from Eastern Mennonite University.

Well, finally I am here! First I say a warm Hello/Salam/Peace to all my Pathway friends. I missed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This week our blog entry comes from Fatemeh Darabi, who was a participant at our Summer Institute last year.  Fatemeh is originally from Tehran, in Iran.  She recently completed an MA in Peace Studies from Eastern Mennonite University.<br />
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<p>Well, finally I am here! First I say a warm Hello/Salam/Peace to all my Pathway friends. I missed you all, and I hope we get together soon. My SIIIRL 2009 experience has been one of the most important and meaningful experiences in my life that I will never forget. One of the reasons was the unique knowledge and  thought of the Pathways team of and about my country, religion and culture &#8211; which is rare in the US indeed. That was the nice part for me which also helped me to connect better with the new environment.  Another reason was the belief of the Pathways team that &#8220;small steps make big changes&#8221;. I really witnessed that point during my experience with Pathways and SIIIRL. I hope they continue their precious effort to make big changes in the hearts and minds of people, through their small but meaningful steps!!!</p>
<p>Good luck friends</p>
<p>I will write again, soon Ensh&#8217;Allah!</p>
<p>Fatemeh :- )</p>
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		<title>Engaging Difference &#8211; does it &#8216;water us down&#8217;? (Part 1)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 16:31:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Burzynski</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[identity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intercultural communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relativism]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[When people feel their values threatened in ambiguous situations (as intercultural interactions are with few exceptions), they often tend to assert these values more aggressively in their behavior. The aggressive assertion of one’s values, and the attempt to impose them upon another through argument, persuasion or force signals to me not a firm commitment to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- 		@page { margin: 0.79in } 		P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } -->When people feel their values threatened in ambiguous situations (as intercultural interactions are with few exceptions), they often tend to assert these values more aggressively in their behavior. The aggressive assertion of one’s values, and the attempt to impose them upon another through argument, persuasion or force signals to me not a firm commitment to said values, but rather a <em>lack </em>of such commitment. How can values we are truly committed to, that is, ones we genuinely believe in, be threatened by interacting with others, even if they do not share these values? My exposure to and exploration of other cultures has absolutely not diluted my values or eroded my identity. On the contrary, I feel that it has strengthened my commitment to certain values by making me less defensive about them and more willing to think critically about the foundation they are built on. From my perspective, this process is by no means one of identity erosion, but rather one of identity enrichment.</p>
<p>Yet there persists all around us a fear and aversion to the notion of cultural relativism, a term that to many connotes <em>moral </em>relativism or even nihilism. This fear is often expressed through the belief that venturing too far outside our respective identity groups will lead to a “watering down” of values and beliefs that will spell the certain demise of our civilization. It is my opinion that this impending doom brought on by cultural relativism, and perhaps even the possibility of cultural relativism existing at all, is a chimera. This entry as well as my next explores this mythology of intercultural resistance, which I perceive as nothing more than a convenient defense mechanism and a barrier to interpersonal connectivity.</p>
<p><!-- 		@page { margin: 0.79in } 		P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } -->From my experience, intercultural experience does not <em>necessarily</em> entail any fundamental change in values, although it can facilitate change of a certain nature. That is to say, it has the potential to clarify and enhance our existing values &#8211; but only if we voluntarily embrace this process. Nothing is compulsory here; as adults we do not passively absorb our beliefs and principles through a process of osmosis the way we imagine children do (and even this is debatable, in my opinion). The intercultural experience certainly does not lead to any “watering down” of values or identity. I believe this kind of phenomenon is more likely to be caused by cultural isolation and rigidity brought on by fear of difference. Any identity rooted in the fear of engagement with difference is likely to be brittle, maladaptive to changing circumstances, and therefore prone to decay. Furthermore, the aggressive assertion of ones values is likely to contradict and undermine the very values being defended. My next entry will expand on this topic and give an example of how a value can negate itself when pushed to its extreme. I will also suggest a potential reconceptualization of what constitutes true commitment.</p>
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		<title>Who cares about the West Bank?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 18:58:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Patrick Frankart</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Palestine]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Right now the legal status of the West Bank is defined as “belligerent occupation.”  The United States State Department, as well as the United Nations, refer to it as an occupied territory.  Both entities, along with the European Union, consider Israeli settlements built on occupied territory to be illegal.  No lesser authority than the Security [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Right now the legal status of the West Bank is defined as “belligerent occupation.”  The United States State Department, as well as the United Nations, refer to it as an occupied territory.  Both entities, along with the European Union, consider Israeli settlements built on occupied territory to be illegal.  No lesser authority than the Security Council has formally decided that allowing continued settlement violates the Fourth Geneva Convention.</p>
<p>Do these policy statements accurately reflect reality?  If that is the goal, then the US, UN, and EU should withdraw their disapproval and acknowledge Israel&#8217;s sovereignty over the West Bank.  Unencumbered settlement construction should allowed.  Such a policy is the only honest representation of the international community&#8217;s intentions.  It is now well over 40 years after Israel annexed East Jerusalem and occupied the West Bank.  It has by now become clear that no government or organization with the influence to seriously dispute Israel&#8217;s authority actually does.</p>
<p>If we assume that the majority of Palestinians living in the West Bank would disagree with this change in policy, who is there willing to advocate their interests?  Obama&#8217;s half-hearted protests say that he is politically unable orunwilling to oppose a strong Israeli government.  If anything his and Netanyahu&#8217;s current suspension on new construction has reignited political support in Israel for settlers.  The EU surely responds to the conflict with enough outrage, but their opposition seems to have been no more forceful than university students boycotting Israeli-grown avocados.</p>
<p>The UN has responded in much the same way, but without even Europe&#8217;s naïve humanist fervor.  One can cite any number of non-binding resolutions that condemn Israel&#8217;s stance toward its occupied territories.  Though again one finds the seriousness of force nowhere in these documents.</p>
<p>To be sure, western groups are not the only ones who advertise themselves as patrons of the Palestinian cause.  At times Egypt, Syria, and Iran have all purported to champion it.  Egypt has fought a handful of wars with, politically opposed, and eventually became allied to Israel.  The net effect of the entirety of their efforts has been zero.  Syria would prefer to posture diplomatically and rattle the saber while they are in fact not influential enough with Israel even to regain their own Golan Heights.</p>
<p>Iran presents an interesting character to the Palestinian people.  Ahmadinejad  has clearly zeroed in on Israel as an enemy of the Islamic Republic.  One of his commonly cited reasons is the way Israel has treated the land and people it occupies.  However, one does not need to be a middle east expert to detect Iran&#8217;s alternative motive.  Right now it is a rising power in the middle east, and opposing Israel, the currently dominant power, is a natural and predictable move.  Siding with the Palestinians is a tactic for expanding its own power.  The worry is whether the Palestinians will suddenly lose their champion if supporting them ceases to serve Iran&#8217;s interests.</p>
<p>The basic truth is that Israel is a powerful and influential nation.  No one is willing to shoulder the political and economic risk that goes along with resisting them.  This is especially true when it means allying oneself with a group as impoverished and practically impotent as the Palestinians.  There is no economic or political incentive to siding with them—only human incentives, and one can see how much weight that has carried.</p>
<p>Therefore, what one sees in the present situation in the West Bank is not an intractable problem, or urgent international conflict.  It is the consensus that the entire international community has tacitly agreed to.  And there is no evidence it will be changing soon.</p>
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		<title>A little taste of Farsi</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Dec 2009 22:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Burzynski</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[farsi]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lately I have become addicted to language learning podcasts, two of my favourites being Coffee Break French and Coffee Break Spanish, which offer dozens of lessons in 15 minute installments (short enough to enjoy with a cup of coffee). I find these are a great way to learn because podcasts offer much more flexible and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lately I have become addicted to language learning podcasts, two of my favourites being <em>Coffee Break French</em> and <em>Coffee Break Spanish,</em> which offer dozens of lessons<em> </em>in 15 minute installments (short enough to enjoy with a cup of coffee). I find these are a great way to learn because podcasts offer much more flexible and self-driven learning than a rigid classroom environment. Also, the simple conversational approach is more engaging than many other &#8220;teach yourself&#8221; kinds of programs. Unfortunately, there is no <em>Coffee Break Farsi, </em>and I have been browsing the net for good Farsi resources with little luck.</p>
<p><em> </em>Until I manage to find a good systematic and regularly updated podcast for learning Farsi, I will post piecemeal audio or video files that may be helpful for those of us looking to familiarize ourselves with the sound of Farsi and some of its basic words and phrases. I have included one such example in this post, which you can hear by clicking the link below. The English speaker will say the phrase he wants translated in English and the Farsi speaker then repeats the phrase in Farsi.</p>
<p><a href="http://englishconversations.org/audio/farsi1.mp3" target="_blank">A little taste of Farsi&#8230;</a></p>
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